Mika

I had my abortion when I was 18, four months ago. I was living with my boyfriend, and working as a waitress.

My mom took me to the abortion, my boyfriend did not want to go. My mom was really supportive. I needed that, and I wished my boyfriend had been there, especially when i chose to look at the ultrasound. He felt uncomfortable and wouldn’t give me head for months after cause he felt my pussy was dirty and sad.

It was not hard for me to find the clinic, a friend and then my councilor told me everything I needed to know eg. hospital vs. Clinic etc. I then waited a month for it. Waiting was hard because i was sick, and working. Very depressed.

I had a Muslim coworker tell me not to have my abortion. I was pissed. Once i communicated with her though, she understood and respected MY CHOICE. Then there was a protester at the door of the clinic, an old man. I saw him and i felt so MAD at him that i just cried on the street.

I’m really open, my parents, brother, friends, 3 or 4 of my coworkers, councilor etc. all knew about my abortion. I really didn’t want my manager to find out because i thought he might cut my shifts.

I have heard my friends and family members talk about their abortions. It has helped me ALOT, (IT WAS THE THING THAT HELPED ME THE MOST) because it helped me feel normal, and not ashamed as i did in the beginning.

I am pro-choice because i believe a women should have the right to choose where, when, and how she will reproduce. we only have babies because of the grace of women, and respect, appreciation, and understanding are due.